fallin' in love or fallin' out of love

You remember the feeling of falling in love for someone for the first time?...Well as if it was a very long time gone by...I do miss the feeling...

So how do you retain the spark in a relationship? Well, I'm not the best person for you to seek advise from. Sometimes I wonder, how did our parents managed to keep their marriage for more than 30 years and still going strong. I guess the olden days are much different compared to the modern world we're living in now. So many temptations from hot hunks and cute girls.

I believe it's a matter of keeping your heart to that one person. Whether you're strong enough to put those temptations aside. If you're searching for a perfect partner, well, you can live in your own perfect world. Heard the word 'No one's perfect' and it is true. Even models have their 'ugly'side. Both partners have to play their part. Being in a relationship is not a one way street thing. Both side gotta chip in, or else, it's going to ruin the whole relationship. It's a big commitment apart from paying for your car installment or your housing loan.

You may face ups and downs being with someone. I don't believe that a partner has never been in an argument before. Impossible. So when that happen, I guess sometimes, both party will burst into flames, this is the part where, one of them has to give in, sit and discuss about (not me, coz I don't like confrontation)..